Thursday, June 11, 2009

Ladies -

Have a life. Don’t let some man be the center of your universe. Your life should contain many interesting and fulfilling activities that have NOTHING to do with your relationship. It is not healthy or attractive to build your life around a man. Don’t be so available, have a life outside the relationship. Don’t get me wrong you should “be there” for your significant other but it is important to be a well rounded person also. You should have other things and people in your life. Men may come and go (even husbands) but the friendships you’ve built and the accomplishments you’ve made, those are the things that really matter.

2 love notes:

KeepitFUNKY said...

I def. dig that. Thats why im trying to get into new things now that my daughter is at least 1yr old. trying to have a social life outside of being a mother and a wife. Slacking- never that but def. trying to find a balance. Im only 21 sheesh. Lol.

Havent been on here in a minute ma, good to see you still holding it down with your interesting blogs. :)

'gia

Tuotierugif >^..^<© said...

I agree with this so much! I think a lot of times it's easy to base your life off of someone else cause your so in love :( I'm gonna try my best not to let that happen though lol