Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Dearest Queen,

"He misses you? Good. He should. You’re sexy, pretty, fun, outgoing and fun to be around. Guys that haven’t met you yet, miss you. But don’t get back together with him, because somewhere out there, there is a guy searching really hard for you. He’s the one who deserves someone as amazing as you, so wait for him. Give yourself to him and don’t go back to that guy who didn’t realize what he had when you were with him."

Today's Ladies Edition is inspired by He’s Just Not That Into You. Lately a lot of girlfriends of mine (on & off the net) have split from a long term relationship or someone they thought were the one. Break-ups are NEVER easy. & it's ever so natural that you would miss ol' dude from time and time again, especially if you loved him, or thought you did. The truth is y'all broke up for a reason, it's OVER for a reason. My best advise is this: sit and think about your ENTIRE relationship and if the bad out weights the good, count your blessing and be glad it's over! HE IS NOT I REPEAT NOT the last dude on earth that will love you and want you!!! STOP settling and stop "breaking up to make-up" bullshit. You are only hurting your self and wasting your time and most importantly BLOCKING YOUR BLESSINGS!! It wasn't until I let GO and LET GO COMPLETELY of my past and the people in it that I realized that GOOD MEN ARE OUT THERE and will treat me HOW I WANT AND SHOULD BE TREATED!! It's never easy to walk away and it's never easy to close a chapter but trust me when I say it's worth it, you'll NEVER know until you let go and TRY!! Your worth more then you know, don't cry anymore tears over someone who isn't worth it, how do you know if there worth it, simple, they would never make you cry unless it's over happiness!!! So when ol' dude trys to get back WHAT HE LOST and texts you late at night, hitting all those corny ass line. TAKE A DEEP BREATHE AND REMEMBER THIS, when he had you he didn't want you, most likely his dick is itching and he looking for it to be scratched! Trust yourself, use your head and your heart!


1 love notes:

O.F.C.J. said...

LoL at "Guys that haven’t met you yet, miss you."